If you meet your mate (or decide to meet your mate) on here, don't go into the relationahip expecting much companionship. Don't expect much real-life loyalty. I have to admit, it's somewhat fascinating - I have not seen many other online dating sites that will have their members saying "I am looking for someone who will understand me" or "I work for my parents and I rarely leave the house". And probably with a record number saying that they are shy/quiet.