tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241291.post114256820291901980..comments2023-08-29T08:19:40.509-07:00Comments on Everquest Daily Grind: MMORPG Infinity (no beyond): Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241291.post-1145586702017655532006-04-20T19:31:00.000-07:002006-04-20T19:31:00.000-07:00Watching TV is as bad as playing video games. They...Watching TV is as bad as playing video games. They're both not bad if you do them very little per day, but playing a game 4 hours a day is equal to watching TV 4 hours a day. Do don't get upset that he chooses to play video games instead of watching TV.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241291.post-1145042686882261262006-04-14T12:24:00.000-07:002006-04-14T12:24:00.000-07:00Your eyes are open. He's a gamer and you're not go...Your eyes are open. He's a gamer and you're not going to change that. Women have this crazy idea that they will marry someone and then mold them into what they want...but it doesn't work. Not with gamers, not with football or sports fans, not musicians or artists, not with anyone who enjoys an activity. And is it fair to expect someone to give up something that is that integral to them? No...no it isn't.<BR/><BR/>If you can't live with him as a gamer, you're not willing to take him "for better or for worse". Drop him now, while it's not too late.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241291.post-1143010589834959462006-03-21T22:56:00.000-08:002006-03-21T22:56:00.000-08:00don't do it. especially having baby with him... ...don't do it. especially having baby with him... if you are ready to raise your child by yourself, then you can marry him and make baby with him... <BR/>i trusted my husband word "i will quit." so many times, and guess what. i'm raising our daughter by myself. he's more interested in raising his game character than his own daughter.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241291.post-1142876154697716372006-03-20T09:35:00.000-08:002006-03-20T09:35:00.000-08:00I am one of those who is on the fence about how to...I am one of those who is on the fence about how to answer this. I never played EQ but found myself drawn to ask a lot of questions from my boyfriend as to what he was doing and the number of hours he played.<BR/><BR/>In all relationships you have to find a compromise. I learned to not pay so much attention to all the different games my boyfriend played and especially the fact that he has played EQ for years.<BR/><BR/>We have learned to spend quality time together, eat together and take vacations together. But I still let him have his time without limits on his game and I have found my own hobbies of my own.<BR/><BR/>Yes, we love these guys. You ultimately make the decision what you want to do with your life...work on your addictions to the games and what the real problem is in your relationship---Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241291.post-1142796228448925962006-03-19T11:23:00.000-08:002006-03-19T11:23:00.000-08:00With all due respect, it seems that you were prett...With all due respect, it seems that you were pretty manipulative in the way that you approached the game. You wrote: "I will act totally addicted and maybe this would scare him and then he'll want to stop."<BR/><BR/>Whether or not he's a gamer, there is no excuse for him not helping out around the house. Sounds to me like couples counseling might be in order. Not as a way of pathologizing his gaming behavior, but as a way for the two of you to start talking about the other issues in your relationship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241291.post-1142745339814617602006-03-18T21:15:00.000-08:002006-03-18T21:15:00.000-08:00Just my humble opinion, but RUN!!! Do NOT marry th...Just my humble opinion, but RUN!!! Do NOT marry this guy. I am 13 yrs into it, and it's a sad, sad way to live.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com